⚷ WOUNDED HEALER

Chiron in Libra

relationship wound · insecurity with partner · injustice · unable to be equal

The wound

A person with Chiron in Libra carries a wound in relationship and equality domain. In childhood, parents' relationship was unjust, one used the other for crushing, or they themselves were pushed into the conciliator role in family. In adulthood, "winner-loser" cycle in relationship; either sacrifices self for partner or crushes partner. Fear of open conflict is large. Physically, kidneys, lower back are sites of wound somatization. "Unable to be equal" with romantic partner is a theme. Healing: protecting own voice in partnership; building belief "every relationship can be just"; learning to bear conflict.

The gift

When tended, becomes the person who teaches how equal partnership is built — couples therapist, negotiator, mediator.

Practice

Don't flee conflict; say your word. Build "I want" in relationship. Couples therapy.